So we’re at the beach. Liam has a shovel and begins to dig.
Husband: are you making a sandcastle?
Liam: Nope. Digging a hole.
Husband: Just digging a hole? No castle?
Liam: Nope. Just a hole.
Husband: What about a tunnel?
Liam: Nope.
Husband: Who just digs a hole?
Liam: Me. I just want to dig a hole.
Husband: But why?
Liam: Because. It’s going to be a really deep hole.
And there it is. The difference between men and boys isn’t necessarily the price of their toys. It’s why you dig.