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	<title>Comments on: Guilt Patches</title>
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	<description>Perpetually Ambivalent New Yorker...Now Living in Abu Dhabi, UAE</description>
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		<title>By: KSB</title>
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		<dc:creator>KSB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, here&#039;s how my brother puts it: it is not about whether or not you know how to do it yourself, but about how valuable your time is. 

I&#039;m with you about the guilt part (soooooo with you on that one), but I do have to acknowledge that my brother has a point. He&#039;s constantly lecturing me about opportunity costs (or something like that)--he keeps reminding me that just because I know how to cook, clean, wash, sew, etc., doesn&#039;t mean that I always have to do it personally, and further, that I need to weigh the little savings I would get by darning myself against the &quot;cost&quot; of what that time would be if I were to do something else (i.e. more &quot;important&quot; or productive in terms of my skills and profession). We academics are not used to thinking of our time in terms of billable hours, but, I am slowly coming to realize that he may be right in certain cases. Since we always have more to do than we have time, we cannot but pick and choose on what we will spend our time, and yes, our attention/energy. Perhaps those few extra dollars will be worth your having more time to spend on writing, or even just relaxing so that the creative juices or intellectual power can flow better after a break? And, definitely cheaper than buying new pants, plus, you won&#039;t have to feel guilty about using extra resources and polluting the environment more, so, seems like a winning game, no? (I know, hard to get over that initial guilt--still working hard at that myself--but, once you get over that, you can get rid of two or three other kinds of guilt!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, here&#8217;s how my brother puts it: it is not about whether or not you know how to do it yourself, but about how valuable your time is. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m with you about the guilt part (soooooo with you on that one), but I do have to acknowledge that my brother has a point. He&#8217;s constantly lecturing me about opportunity costs (or something like that)&#8211;he keeps reminding me that just because I know how to cook, clean, wash, sew, etc., doesn&#8217;t mean that I always have to do it personally, and further, that I need to weigh the little savings I would get by darning myself against the &#8220;cost&#8221; of what that time would be if I were to do something else (i.e. more &#8220;important&#8221; or productive in terms of my skills and profession). We academics are not used to thinking of our time in terms of billable hours, but, I am slowly coming to realize that he may be right in certain cases. Since we always have more to do than we have time, we cannot but pick and choose on what we will spend our time, and yes, our attention/energy. Perhaps those few extra dollars will be worth your having more time to spend on writing, or even just relaxing so that the creative juices or intellectual power can flow better after a break? And, definitely cheaper than buying new pants, plus, you won&#8217;t have to feel guilty about using extra resources and polluting the environment more, so, seems like a winning game, no? (I know, hard to get over that initial guilt&#8211;still working hard at that myself&#8211;but, once you get over that, you can get rid of two or three other kinds of guilt!)</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah  Quinn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah  Quinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 02:11:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@dick: the thing is that it&#039;s COLD. and they don&#039;t give two figs for fashion (thank god). They&#039;re just not wanting hte wind blowing through their trousers...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@dick: the thing is that it&#8217;s COLD. and they don&#8217;t give two figs for fashion (thank god). They&#8217;re just not wanting hte wind blowing through their trousers&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Dick Horwich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dick Horwich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 21:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What happened to ripped jeans as a look?  My students wear them.</description>
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		<title>By: Deborah  Quinn</title>
		<link>http://mannahattamamma.com/2010/02/240/comment-page-1/#comment-197</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah  Quinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 15:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that&#039;s really the crux of it, KSB: to pay someone to do something that I KNOW I could do myself...makes me feel guilty (again, still).  It&#039;s sort of why I don&#039;t have a cleaning person. Maybe I could rationalize the paying-for-patches by telling myself that it&#039;s cheaper than buying new pants... hmm.  Or maybe that&#039;s what I&#039;ll do tonight during the super bowl. Get me a thimble and settle in. After all, sewing is about the only thing more boring that football so might as well put the two together, eh? thanks for the comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that&#8217;s really the crux of it, KSB: to pay someone to do something that I KNOW I could do myself&#8230;makes me feel guilty (again, still).  It&#8217;s sort of why I don&#8217;t have a cleaning person. Maybe I could rationalize the paying-for-patches by telling myself that it&#8217;s cheaper than buying new pants&#8230; hmm.  Or maybe that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ll do tonight during the super bowl. Get me a thimble and settle in. After all, sewing is about the only thing more boring that football so might as well put the two together, eh? thanks for the comment.</p>
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		<title>By: KSB</title>
		<link>http://mannahattamamma.com/2010/02/240/comment-page-1/#comment-196</link>
		<dc:creator>KSB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know if they are still there, or what their fees are now, but the dry cleaners on 4th Ave. just off Astor Place (on the east side of 4th Ave.) used to offer good repair services, so you might try looking into that as an option. I never used them (as my grad student budget required that I darn myself in the wee hours in front of the telly and my wise mother had made sure that I had learned how when growing up), but had friends who did, and they seemed to like that option. A reasonable fee might be worth your time and energy (saved).  A friend of mine over here, who is a mother of three, swears by her investment in a sewing machine with stich options &quot;perfect&quot; for patching; a colleague of mine, who has one young son, &quot;believes&quot; that &quot;the contemporary urban fashion&quot; of torn jeans should not be exclusively available for teenagers, but also for 7 year olds.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if they are still there, or what their fees are now, but the dry cleaners on 4th Ave. just off Astor Place (on the east side of 4th Ave.) used to offer good repair services, so you might try looking into that as an option. I never used them (as my grad student budget required that I darn myself in the wee hours in front of the telly and my wise mother had made sure that I had learned how when growing up), but had friends who did, and they seemed to like that option. A reasonable fee might be worth your time and energy (saved).  A friend of mine over here, who is a mother of three, swears by her investment in a sewing machine with stich options &#8220;perfect&#8221; for patching; a colleague of mine, who has one young son, &#8220;believes&#8221; that &#8220;the contemporary urban fashion&#8221; of torn jeans should not be exclusively available for teenagers, but also for 7 year olds.</p>
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